Jon Gosselin, father of eight and wannabe playboy around town is accusing his estranged wife of being abusive to him, mentally that is.

He also is fairly adamant that the marriage is over telling ABC’s Chris Cuomo

“Our relationship will never be fixed, I don’t trust her anymore. I was abused… I was beaten down… I’m not going back to that life style.”

“In 10 years, I’ve never gone out… I used to say, ‘OK, I’m not going to go out.’ I was very passive.

This is the first time I said, ‘You know what? I want to see my friends. I’m going out,’” he said.

“That was the first time in my life I ever stood up to Kate… I just felt like I had to take back some time in my life, and I did it. And I felt really good. I made my own decision… I was beaten down for so long, I couldn’t even make my own decision.

And when I did, I was like, holy cow! You know? Yeah, what’s she gonna do? Divorce me? All right. Obviously.”

Good for you Jon, be a man and you keep setting them little ones a fine example.